Resurrecting The Romance - Janesdiary
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Resurrecting The Romance 

 Accept Your Partner’s Support and Support Them 
 It is a lot easier to support your spouse than it is to accept support from them. Part of resurrecting romance is accepting his or her support. Many times, people think they are supporting the other one through offering suggestions. But this is not the most effective way to help someone. The best way to offer support is to listen em-pathetically to them. Let them come to their own solutions using you as a sounding board. 
 One thing you can do to offer support is to offer to take up the financial slack to help people achieve their dreams. If your partner has always dreamed of becoming a painter, when you get a raise at work, don’t go out and buy a new car with higher car payments. Offer to let him reduce his hours at work so that he has time to paint. If she gets a promotion that requires her to travel, offer to pack her bags. This kind of support will go a long way toward making a relationship work. 
 How does this tie in to resurrecting romance? Well, it’s simple. If you can offer support and accept support in turn, you will strengthen your relationship which opens the door to more romance in your life. Live Your Love Remember back to when you first met. You probably called, emailed, texted, sent faxes, wrote love letters, or did whatever the technology allowed to let your love know that you were thinking of them. In other words, you didn’t allow the hustle and bustle of daily life get in the way of living your love.

Resurrecting The Romance

You didn’t take the other person for granted. But over the years, you have come to accept the inevitable place the other person has in your life. Picking up the milk or mowing the lawn become the things you do for your mate. What if you were to shift your perspective entirely? Pretend for a day or week or month that you just met this person. Move into a separate bedroom. Try to woo the person again. 

 Try to make them fall in love with you. You would be surprised at how living your love can inspire romance. When you think about how to win her over, you’ll bring her flowers. When you think about how to win him over, you won’t be shrill in the morning to him. 
 Before you take any action, think about whether you would do that if you had just met your partner. Before you say any words, think about whether they would be spoken if you were trying to win their heart. Don’t fall into the comfortable but unsatisfactory routine that assumes that your partner is stuck with you and you are free to treat them however you’d like. Instead, work on living your love and the romance will follow. 

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I am a highly sought-after personal and business branding coach, marriage and Relationship therapist, a blogger and an entrepreneur. I have been blessed with the opportunity to work with some of Africa's most successful entrepreneurs. My success is as a result of my unrelenting passion for excellence in all that I do. My mission is to help people attain their desired goals by teaching them how to be more confident, better communicators and better decision makers. [email protected]
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By Janesdiary

I am a highly sought-after personal and business branding coach, marriage and Relationship therapist, a blogger and an entrepreneur. I have been blessed with the opportunity to work with some of Africa's most successful entrepreneurs. My success is as a result of my unrelenting passion for excellence in all that I do. My mission is to help people attain their desired goals by teaching them how to be more confident, better communicators and better decision makers. [email protected]

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