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You have been single and tired of waiting. You have come across alot of guys, and probably dated one or two with the hope that it’ll end in marriage. All your mates are married, and some now have children who calls you anty, there is a part of you that feels jealous and irritated when your mates are discussing about the pride and joy of motherhood. Life can be meaningless when your plans, thoughts and aspiration are betraying you. See what God is talking about you.

Jeremiah 29:11: For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.: (Notebook bible)

You are over 30, or close to 30, you have practiced what the motivational speakers taught you, you have been looking but can’t seem to make a good match with any of the guys you encountered, things can get frustrating pretty quickly. But maybe the key is to stop looking and start honing in on all the other amazing qualities you have that make you the kind of woman every man want. Your husband is not far from you, follow the instructions in this book and your husband will come running to you. Not only will you increase your dateability, you’ll increase your choices when all the guys are lining up just for a chance to take you out.



A lady who is matured enough to marry, but does not have a suitable husband suffers psychological trauma, reproach, loss of sense of belonging, desperation, pains and mockery. She is not being regarded as someone who has integrity and respect as many view her from the perspective of being grossly irresponsible.
I have asked so many ladies in the past why they are still single at 35, 40 years of age and I get shocking answers.

Some say it is because of a relationship they invested alot of time into and the guy ended up going for another lady. I have heard people say they spent 10-15 years in a relationship that didn’t work out. Leaving them to start all over again.

Marriage is a bliss if it happens at proper time, but can become a thing of depression if it doesn’t happen at the right time.


The worst and most difficult causes of late marriage is the one that is spiritually imposed on you. To be able to break off from this type of delay requires more serious prayer and a dedicated effort.

Ephesians 6:12:
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high place

So many ladies are under spiritual blockage, their beauty have been hidden from husband Material, most times these type of ladies are good for friendship, bestie, church confidant, prayer partner; but when it comes to a more serious relationship, they are not seen. Let’s look at the likely causes of marital delay.



The timing of Man is totally different from the timing of God. When God’s time is missed, we darelly pay for it. DIVINE TIMING also means DIVINE OPPORTUNITY. Many times we miss divine opportunity when it comes our way. The man will come but we discard him. We want it to be as we planned. Most times, We set time for God as against divine timing. This is an error you must not commit, and if it is already committed, ask God for mercy. Be SENSITIVE when it comes to the issue of marriage. Read Ecclesiastes 3:1-end.

Ethnic Background:

I have heard and seen families who stood their ground, and sworn on their dead body never to allow their daughters marry into another ethnic background. This could poise a threat to the timing of the lady. Eventually, she may miss her timing in life.


Some ladies invest so much of their time and attention on Education, some with big placard on their forehead, I AM NOT AVAILABLE. Most times, when they become available, the suitable husband would have moved.


Some are of the opinion that untill money is available in abundance, they cannot think of starting a family. They don’t believe in starting small. This is a major factor, because most ladies now look for ready made men.

Long distance relationship

This is one of the most dangerous type of relationship you can ever be. Long distance relationship can demand that you stay longer years together as friends, waiting for each other only for the guy to propose to another person and before your eyes, get married. I was told of a relationship that lasted 9 years, only to end in disappointment, leaving the lady to start all over.

No relationship should exceed 2 years, to lead to marriage


Secrets to finding the right Husband

You are getting close to that age when people are starting to gossip about you not finding a husband. And, you are really getting frustrated about it. Then, it might be the time that you are learning on how you can find a husband quickly and successfully. With these 20 tips, you will be able to find your husband quickly, guaranteed.

You will not be able to find your husband if you don’t know what you want in a man. You need to do some self-examination in order to know what you want in a husband. Should he be friendly and a gentleman? Or, should he be rough and a party animal? These are things that you need to know before you can even start looking for your husband. Otherwise, you are going to fail at your dates. Each and every time.

Some people are saying that the perfect age for marriage is 25, they even said that, , you will not be able to find your husband anymore after 30 because men don’t like dating older women. However, the one thing that you need to understand is that when you are 30 and above, it doesn’t mean that you are getting old. This only means that you are now matured enough to find the right husband and to make sure that you are going to have a successful marriage.

You aren’t going to meet the man of your dreams by sitting home and watching bad reality shows. You have to get out and start meeting people. You have to enlist your friends and family in helping you meet new people. One of these guys you meet could be the one. I’m not saying you should start presenting your self in a cheap manner, you only need a little level of freestyling.

Get out there.



It’s important to do things that are outside of your comfort zone. Not only will this widen the net for potential mates, but it will also make you more interesting. For example: if you’re usually a bookish type of person, try going out to a concert, or take rock climbing lessons. You’ll meet all different types of people, who in turn will introduce you to an ever-widening network of potential husbands.
Make sure that you tell family and friends that you’re looking for a relationship and ask them to set you up with a guy they think you might like. Family and friends can be great for that sort of thing and will usually have your best interests at heart.

Practice confidence.

Confidence is that trait that can get you more dates than any subjective “attractiveness” is going to. Fortunately, unlike physical appearance, confidence is a trait that can be learned and developed. The more you try it, the more confident you will get, and the more men will be intrigued by your confidence.
Fake it ’til you make it. The great thing about confidence is that you can fake it and trick your brain into actually believing that you’re confident. Start small–wear those heels you love, but think you look silly in, or that bright red lipstick–and work your way up to bigger acts of confidence–asking a guy for his number, buying a guy a drink, etc.
Don’t compare yourself to other people, especially other women. Someone is always going to be better-looking, more successful, with better relationships. You need to focus on the good things about yourself, rather than how you compare to others.

Present yourself effectively.

Relationship can be a bit like marketing, or like looking for a job. You have to learn how to present yourself in a way that draws guys in. This doesn’t mean that you give up who you are, it simply means that you know how to get across the best, and simplest, sides of who you are.
Draw up a list of good qualities. If you’re having difficulties (and a lot of people with self-esteem issues do) have a trusted friend help you out there. For example: you might say that you’re “a good listener,” “funny,” “a fabulous hiker,” “up for anything,” etc. They have to be positive qualities!
Have an image. Pick three of the things that you put on your list and create an image based on these. Again, this does not mean sacrificing who you are as a complex individual, but it is a shorthand way to present yourself and for your friends/family to talk about you with potential dates. For example: using the above qualities you present yourself as “a funny, outdoors person, who’s up for anything.”

Dress for success.

If you’re going in for a job interview you’re not going to be super slovenly. You don’t want to dress yourself super uncomfortably and you want to make sure you’re dressing for the occasion (dressing churchy to go to the gym is definitely not the best idea). Abi, I hope you gerrit?

Be open

It’s really important that you don’t limit your options for visibility by focusing exclusively on “dating” places (like the picnics, youth gathering, parties, etc.). People meet their significant others in all kinds of places, and you’ll need to be open to that possibility.
For example, if you’re on a long train ride, maybe make eye contact with that guy across the train you think is cute. If you’re really bold, strike up conversation. Ladies, it is not only the guys who are wired to start a romantic conversation, you can be romantic and still maintain a quality self esteem.
This is also why it’s so important to get out there and do things. You could very well meet that special someone at the park, at the library, on a plane to somewhere far away, at your local church.

Weed out the bad ones.

If you’re putting yourself out there, marketing yourself effectively, then you’re going to start garnering interest. Now’s the time to start weeding out the ones that aren’t going to cut it: the players, the really strange ones, the ones who wouldn’t make good husbands, etc.

Don’t be so picky.


While you are trying to get rid of the ones who won’t work, you should also consider giving a chance to guys that you might not normally go for. This doesn’t mean that creepy guy you met yesterday, but it does mean maybe trying out someone who doesn’t have that tush vibe, or who dresses in a manner you aren’t sure you like. You never know what might come out of that sort of relationship. I have seen relationships that started like two opposites and eventually turned out to be world’s best.


Some things to look out for in a potential mate: he blames women for everything (eventually he’ll start to blame you, too; run away from the “you’re not like other women” guy; bonus points for derogatory language); a guy who’s obsessed with looks (your looks will “fade” as you get older and he’ll start looking at the younger crowd); someone who doesn’t want to be exclusive (it’s unlikely that he’ll ever commit to being exclusive; you can do better).

Be realistic.

Remember, there is no guarantee that you’re going to find a husband. Even if you do, he’s probably not going to look like a movie star, treat you like a queen, and devote his every second to your needs. That doesn’t mean you won’t find someone whom you love and are passionate with.


There is pressure every where on you, to get married and “settle down”. You are faced with both internal and physical pressure, but come to think of it, should a woman marry a man she is older than!? Age is just a number, but if you’re currently dating a younger man or you’re interested in doing so, it’s imperative to understand the six key elements of going younger. Depending on your relationship needs, sexual desires, and realistic expectations for relationships in your 30s, 40s, and beyond, dating a younger man can either be an ideal choice or not the best fit.
Age should not be a barrier to love and companionship. There is no reason why a relationship between an older woman and younger man cannot work long term, provided both partners are committed and willing to put in the work.

As older woman-younger man relationships have become more common, especially on social media, people’s perceptions have changed and there is less judgement surrounding this type of age gap. Dynamics are similar to that of older man-younger woman relationships, which are more common and less criticized.
Any relationship between two people has its challenges, and older woman-younger man relationships are no different. At times, the gap in mindsets, financial security, goals, experience etc. that comes with May-December romances can be overwhelming, both in the bedroom and in daily life.

However, people fall in love with a person, not their age. As long as you are in love and for the right reasons, your relationship can work.
What does the Bible say about a man marrying an older woman? Is it acceptable?

The Bible places no requirements for age in marriage. Since the Bible is silent on this concern, all believers have liberty in this area, meaning a man of any age may marry a woman of any age so long as both are old enough to enter into marriage by law and custom and both have consented to the marriage.

Teaching found in some cultures and churches asserts that an older woman may not marry a younger man, but such teaching is not based on scripture. It is a man-made requirement only, and if it is presented as if it is a biblical requirement, then it is a false teaching. For example, some teach that because Adam was created first then the man in every marriage must always be older than his wife, but this is not a proper interpretation of scripture. .

The Bible never suggests that because Adam was created first that the man in every marriage should be older than the woman. This is an example of confusing description for prescription. Furthermore, it is a ridiculous use of the text of Genesis. Taken to its logical conclusion, if we hold that all marriages must mimic Adam and Woman’s marriage in every respect, then we would also conclude that every man must find his bride from a part of his own body just as Adam did! Clearly, this is faulty logic.
The most important thing to consider is if God is involved. Don’t be carried away by the fact that age is running out on you, when God is already planning something bigger. It is very important to adhere to the teaching of the HolySpirit, and move in the light of His leading.

You must also be ready to be submissive as the bible demands.

1 Corinthians 11:3
Verse Concepts
But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.

Ephesians 5:23
Verse Concepts
For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body

Why Submitting to Your Husband Is Good
You may be thinking, ‘Well, of course, submitting to my husband is good, but I am older than him. He should submit to me. But actually, you’d be surprised by the benefits this simple act can have both for you and your marriage. Let’s take a look at a few!

  1. You Show Him That You Trust Him
    Marriage is supposed to be a union between two people who fully and completely trust each other. That means that you’re ready to give the reins over to your husband sometimes, especially when it comes to making decisions. After all, if you’re in a loving marriage, why should you be worried? Your husband is bound to make a choice that’s best for you both.

Now, you might think that your husband knows you trust him without you having to submit to him. But how would he? You need to show it to him — especially if you’re usually the one who makes all decisions. And what better way to do that than let him take control?



  1. You Will Influence Each Other
    In marriage, unity comes first, individuality second. Sure, you are still your own person, but you’ve also agreed to be a part of a couple and share your life with someone. That comes with many benefits, but also a few sacrifices. Your full independence is one of them.

That might be particularly hard to accept — but remember, it doesn’t mean you need to give up on your hobbies and dreams. It simply means that you should open up to your husband’s influence and allow him to change some aspects of you. And don’t worry — your husband should similarly allow you to influence him. That way, the two of you can grow together and become the best versions of yourselves!

  1. No Unnecessary Conflicts
    Are you butting heads with your husband over trivial things time and time again? It happens to married couples quite frequently — both parties firmly believe they’re right and refuse to give in. This behavior only leads to tension, arguments, and unnecessary stress.

And yet, all of that is entirely avoidable. Submitting to your husband will change your turbulent marriage into smooth sailing and make communication between you two much easier.

Of course, that doesn’t mean you should always give in. If it’s really important to you that something goes your way, talk to your husband about it. Explain why you care so much, and he’ll likely agree with you in the end. But don’t forget to pick your battles.

  1. Your Marriage Will Flourish
    Some people will tell you that, in marriage, both the husband and the wife have their roles. For instance, the husband’s role is to lead, protect, and provide, while the wife’s purpose is to nurture, care, and support. When both spouses are fulfilling their respective roles, the marriage flourishes.

Now, you may not like this division into roles, but you can’t deny that each spouse has their own needs. Husbands want their wives to respect them and rely on them, even if he’s younger, while wives want to feel safe and cherished. By submitting to your husband, you fulfill his needs and encourage him to take care of yours too. And fulfilled needs ensure a long and happy marriage!

How to Submit to Your Husband
You now understand what the benefits of submitting to your husband are, but what exactly does it entail? There is a lot of misinformation out there, which causes many women to reject the notion outright. So let’s see what a real submissive wife should do, as well as what sort of behavior she shouldn’t accept.

  1. Let Him Take the Lead
    When it comes to managing the household and your marriage, you probably often feel your husband isn’t up to the task. Somehow it always seems that, if you don’t take things into your hands, they’ll never be done properly. You end up wearing the pants in your relationship and making most decisions.

While it may seem like he doesn’t mind this arrangement, it’s important to let your husband be in charge. That way, you show him that you value him and trust his judgment, and in turn, you’ll be relieved of some responsibility. Ultimately, when you both feel good about yourselves, your marriage will thrive.

  1. Ask Him for His Opinion
    You may be used to making some decisions on your own, such as buying household items, groceries, and managing the family budget in general. And your husband may be perfectly fine with this — but you should still ask him what he thinks.

Of course, you don’t need to call him and ask his opinion on every item you buy in the supermarket. But when it comes to larger purchases — like furniture, for instance — you should check what your husband thinks. Even if you know that he’ll agree with whatever you choose, asking for his input will show him that you value him.

  1. Think of His Needs
    Like most people, you’re probably inclined to think of your own needs first. Everyone else’s needs, even your husband’s, tend to come second. But think about it — if you’re putting yourself first, and your husband is putting himself first, then where does that leave your marriage? Probably in the second place — and that’s not where it should be.

So try to see things from his angle and understand what he needs whenever you can. It won’t be easy to disregard your own needs if they conflict his — but it will get better with time.

And you might ask yourself, ‘Why doesn’t he do that for me instead?’ Well, if he truly loves you, he will likely put your needs above his too. But don’t wait around for him to make the first effort — bring positive energy to your marriage on your own.

  1. Try Not to Criticize Him or Speak Negatively of Him

  2. The last thing you want to bring to your marriage is negative energy, and criticizing is a sure way to do it. That doesn’t mean you should never disagree with your husband — but even when you do, try to express it in a constructive way. If he listens to your concerns but doesn’t change anything, do your best to trust his decisions.

And remember — it’s best to discuss any issues you have with your husband rather than speak negatively of him behind his back. After all, you two are a team, a unit, and you should stick together for better or worse.

  1. Be Intimate Frequently

  2. Sex isn’t just a fun and stress-relieving pastime — it also helps deepen the bond between you and your husband. You may not need it as often as he does, but don’t deny it to him without a good reason. By satisfying him in the marriage bed, you show that you care about him and his feelings. He’ll know that you can put him first sometimes — even if you aren’t really feeling it that day.
  3. Talk to Him About the Changes in Your Marriage
    When you first decide to submit to your husband, it would be wise to talk to him about it. If he’s used to you taking the lead, this new arrangement might be entirely foreign to him. In fact, he might not know what it entails or what’s expected of him. So it’s up to you to explain and answer any questions that come up.

You both might slip up in your new roles occasionally — that’s perfectly normal in the beginning. Ask your husband to forgive you if you do and remind you that he’s supposed to take the lead now. A good conversation always makes a lot of difference!

  1. Don’t Accept Abusive Behavior
    Submitting to your husband isn’t a bad thing — but only if done correctly. Remember, your husband should treat you with love and respect, not take advantage of you. Don’t ever think that berating, intimidating, or disrespecting is normal. Even submissive wives should have their boundaries, so remember to keep yours firmly in place.

If you do find yourself in an abusive situation, seek help. Turn to your friends, family, or find a good therapist. There are many institutions and professionals that can help you get out — so don’t settle for mistreatment, even of the emotional kind.

In Conclusion
It may seem like submitting to your husband benefits only him, but actually, your whole marriage can flourish thanks to it. He’ll be happy and cherish you more than ever before, so naturally, you will be pleased too. Instead of being two separate individuals, you will be a unit that works together towards the same goal. And that goal is, of course, a blissful marriage.



Let us hold on to the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful.So do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord. Remember the great reward it brings you! Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that he has promised. For, “In just a little while, he who is coming will come and will not delay.” (Heb 10:23, 35-37)

Confession for Attracting God-Ordained Marital Partner

Heavenly father, I thank you for your care for me from the time of

conception in my mother’s womb, through the nine months’ period pregnancy, up until my safe delivery. I am full of appreciation for your

provisions, love and care for me right from my childhood days through

adolescence, up until my maturing years.

I am convinced that you have a unique purpose for my life and that no one

else can fulfill my ordained purpose except myself. I know this because

your word says, before I was formed in my mothers’ womb, you knew me,

before I was born you set me apart for a holy purpose, and appointed me

for a unique purpose and position for my nation, family and neighborhood.

I am therefore convinced that my life is not an accident and I am extremely

precious in your sight. You said in your word, that my life is so valuable to

you that you gave the life of your only begotten Son as an exchange for my

life. Because you freely gave the life of your only begotten Son as an

exchange for my life, giving me a life partner is nothing compared to your

precious act of love for my life. I am therefore convinced that your thoughts

towards me and my relationship is that of good and not of evil, to give me a

perfect partner who have been created for me from the foundation of the

world. The bone of my bone, and the flesh of my flesh. I know this is true

because your word says although mothers in difficult circumstances may

forget their nursing child, and sometimes forget to have compassion on the

child of their womb. You will never forget me, because you have engraved

me on the palms of your hands, and my walls are continually before you.

As your precious child, I hereby openly declare my desire for a life partner,

to the hearing of the angels and the Holy Spirit, because I have openly

declared my desire for partnership. According to your word, my desire shall

be granted to me as a righteous son in Jesus name: Your word says,

whatsoever things I desire, when I pray, I should believe that I receive them

and I shall have them. Father in the name of Jesus, I believe I receive my

marital partner with the following fruit of the spirit, complimentary

personality traits and compatible God-given vision (Insert detailed spirit-

inspired – desired character, personality and God-given vision of your

proposed partner)

I am convinced beyond any iota of doubt that I have received my desired

partner. Because I am a seeker of the Lord, I will not lack any good thing in

life according to your word. Also, because I have been created for a unique

except myself. I know this because

your word says, before I was formed in my mothers’ womb, you knew me,

before I was born you set me apart for a holy purpose, and appointed me

for a unique purpose and position for my nation, family and neighborhood.

I am therefore convinced that my life is not an accident and I am extremely

precious in your sight. You said in your word, that my life is so valuable to

you that you gave the life of your only begotten Son as an exchange for my

life. Because you freely gave the life of your only begotten Son as an

exchange for my life, giving me a life partner is nothing compared to your

precious act of love for my life. I am therefore convinced that your thoughts

towards me and my relationship is that of good and not of evil, to give me a

perfect partner who have been created for a unique purpose in Life.
Father, Your Word says that all good and perfect gifts come from above – James 1:17, and also, that it is not good for man to be alone – Gen. 2:18, I, therefore confess that I am not going to remain alone for marriage is God’s idea and since all that comes from God is good, I receive my portion in marriage in Jesus name.

I receive my marriage partner in order to receive the honour of marriage for Your Word says, “Marriage is honourable….” (Heb. 13:4). Because it is the will of God concerning me in Christ Jesus (John 6:39), I shall not lose anything that God has intended for me (my partner inclusive) and given to me in Jesus name. Lord, I know my best is yet to come; therefore, I step into the full manifestation of God’s will for my life in Jesus name. For your Word says,
“Two are better than one…” (Eccl. 4:9).

Lord, Your Word tells me that none shall lack her mate (Isa. 34:16), and also that no good thing shall He withhold from the upright (Psalm 84:11); I therefore declare that I shall not lack my mate in Jesus name.

Father, I receive a change of status. Lord, I shall be called “married” in Jesus name according to Your Word in Isaiah 62:4 that says, “My land shall be called married.”

I declare that in my tabernacle, the sound’s of rejoicing of marriage shall be heard
concerning me in the mighty name of Jesus for Your Word says, “There shall be the sound of the bride and the sound of the bridegroom”.

I confess that I am going to glorify God in my body and I shall not defile myself and my body which is the temple of God because Your Word says, “My body is the temple of the Holy Spirit” (I Cor. 6:19) and, “….The marriage bed must be kept undefiled”. Therefore Lord, by your grace, I shall “Flee every appearance of evil” (I Thess. 5:22) that might want to lure me into sin during my waiting period in Jesus name.

I shall not be unequally yoked together with an unbeliever (2 Cor. 6:19) in my choice in marriage either out of desperation or the devil’s deceit and I also declare that I shall not lack God’s direction in my choice of a future partner for the Word of God says, “My ears shall hear a word behind me telling me this is the way, walk in it” (Isaiah 30:21). By the help of the Holy Spirit, I will diligently obey God as He speaks to me in Jesus name.

I confess that I receive help from You Lord in developing patience, quietly entrusting my future and my desire to marry to you ( Col. 1:8-12).

Lord, I confess that whoever my marriage partner is, I shall find her (or) he shall find me and we shall only do each other good and not evil all the days of our lives and find favour before God and man on account of our union, for he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God (Prov. 18:22), in Jesus mighty name.

Father, I know that your thoughts towards me are thoughts of peace not evil and to give me an expected end – Jer. 29:11. Therefore, I declare that I shall end well and happily married in Jesus name. I confess that I am long suffering, I am kind, I am not envious, I do not parade myself, I am not puffed up, I do not behave rudely, I do not seek my own, I am not easily provoked, I think no evil, I do not rejoice in iniquity but rejoice in the truth, I bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, and I endure all things. I receive the true love of God that never fails in Jesus name. I confess the same over my marriage partner, whoever he/she is and wherever he/she is in Jesus name (I Cor. 13:4-8).

I confess over myself and my future partner that we possess the fruit of the Spirit by faith which is love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control in Jesus name (Gal. 5: 22-23). I totally consecrate myself to God and his plans and renounce all my own plans and human standards. Not my will but yours be find o Lord regarding my spouse.

The peace of God that transcends all understanding shall continue to be my experience in Jesus name.
Special Prayers for speed.
Prayer to the Holy Spirit
God of Promises, I thank You for Your word because it does not return back void. Your word declares that no creature shall be missing nor lack its mate. It is Your mouth that has commanded this, and it is Your Spirit who will gather them. Lord, I know that You have set apart a husband for me, I pray that Your Spirit leads me to him so that I will not lack my mate. I thank You for my future husband. Amen.

Prayer for Direction
God of wisdom, please direct my heart into finding the right man to love and marry. Direct my steps towards a path that leads me to the husband You have prepared for me to spend my life with. Lead me to the right decisions. Bring me to the right places that I should be at. Help me develop the right friendships and guide me into pursuing an intimate relationship with a man who loves You and wants to do what’s right in his life. Amen.

Prayer for Patience in Waiting for a Husband
Father God, You know me from the inside out. You know my desires and even my fleshly temptations. Help me know right from wrong, according to Your word. Teach me to wait upon You, oh Lord, for I often go ahead of Your plan. I know that You already have someone for me. Just help me to wait for him, Lord. If he is in front of me, show me. Help me to be less choosy, but to prayerfully rely on Your selection for me, because You know who is best. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer to Be Found
Eternal God, the scripture declares that whoever finds a wife, finds a good thing, and obtains favor from You. I pray that my husband finds me, I pray that You lead us to one another so that we both may find good things. I thank You for blessing me with a husband, I will wait patiently and faithfully for him until we cross paths. Protect him at all times in everything that he does. Amen.

Prayer for Personal Preparation
Loving Father, I know that in order for me to find the right husband, I must be the right wife. I ask that You would help me grow in faith and in character. Help me mature in my thoughts, speech, and actions because as I become the right person, I will draw the right man in my life too. Help me increase my understanding and experience of life. Prepare me in every way that is important to become a woman that the right man will pursue to be his wife. Amen.

Prayer of Loneliness
Father God, I thank You for the life that You have given me. Lord, I have been feeling lonely lately, and I believe that there will be a perfect companion for me, in Your time, oh Lord. Help me, when I get lonely or afraid of being on my own, help me to feel Your presence. I do not need a man to feel value, for I am precious to You. Teach me to be confident in You. I know that You are the great Provider, the Healer, and the One who makes all things beautiful, as You made me. Allow me to see that I am beautiful as I am, and that I am precious. Help me to give You all my praise with my whole heart, and know that things will happen in Your all-knowing time. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer to Find the Right Husband
Lord, You said that is not good for man to be alone, so You made woman (a helper) for him. I know that I was made to serve You, but I also know that I have a duty to serve my husband here on earth. I pray that You draw us to each other so that neither of us has to be alone, I pray that we do not settle for those who are not suited for us just to avoid loneliness. Amen.

Prayer for Protection
Dear God, sometimes I fear that there are only a few good men out there. And I worry that I might miss out on finding Your perfect will for my life. I ask that You would protect me from making wrong decisions that will take me far away from Your will and Your purposes for my life. Keep me away from bad influences and unfruitful activities. Please don’t let me get involved with friends and men that are only after lustful and self-centered relationships. Lead me to that one man who will be that husband You want for me to have someday. Answer my prayer today, amen.

Asking the Will of God for a Current Boyfriend
Father, I come to You in thankfulness for giving me this boyfriend of mine. Help me to understand Your will for this relationship, if he is the one for me. If not, reveal that to me also. I don’t want to continue in my own passions, but I want to follow You. If he is not the one, give me the strength to let him go, and give him the wisdom to understand. I know that You have the perfect husband for me, not a perfect man, but someone who is perfect for me. Give me the patience to wait upon You, my God. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for Patience
Righteous Lord, I wait on You and will be of good courage, for it is You who strengthens my heart. I will wait on You as I wait for my husband. I pray that You give me the strength to wait patiently and purposefully. I pray that I use this season of waiting for the purpose of personal growth so that I can be the person my husband needs me to be. I pray that You direct me to him so that I can find him. Amen.

Prayer for My Future Husband
Father God, I know You have someone good and perfect for my life. There is a husband out there for me who will meet my needs and love me with Christlike love. I know You want me to complete him and to love him with Christlike love someday, too. I look forward to that day! Even now, I pray for my future husband, Lord. I pray that You would guide this man and help him grow into a mature, godly Christian who knows how to love You and others with sincerity. Father, please keep him on the right path and let Your Spirit lead us to each other at the best time. Amen.

Prayer for a Christian Friend Who Might Become More than a Friend
Father, I am thankful for the good friend that I have in _. He is loyal and kind, and I see how he is a man after Your heart. Lord, show me if He is the one whom You have for me. I want to wait on You because I know that Your plan is perfect. Your will is good. I am confident that there is a perfect soul mate for me, and if he is the one, I pray that You would confirm it to my heart. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for One Flesh
Magnificent Father, Your word states that a man shall leave his father and his mother to be with his wife, and they shall be one flesh. I pray for the man that You have chosen to be my husband, I pray that You give him the strength to leave his mother and father and give him the guidance that brings him to me. I pray that I too am led by You on my journey of finding my husband. Amen.

Prayer for Wisdom in Current Relationship
All-knowing God, I give my relationship to You today. I love my boyfriend right now, and I feel that he loves me. But I want Your will for my life, Lord. I want to be sure that You approve of this relationship. I know that no relationship will be perfect, but with You at the center, everything will be alright. So I ask that You would please confirm this intimate relationship that I have right now with my boyfriend. If he is the husband You want for my life, then let this relationship grow stronger. And help us both grow in faith, love, maturity, and commitment to each other. And if he is not the man for me, please help us both see that reality. And help us accept that we are not meant for each other and part ways as good friends. Please, Father, answer my prayer and enlighten me today. Amen.

Seeking Guidance for a Future Husband
Father God, thank You for always being good to me. I come today to ask for a husband, oh Lord. I know that when I come to You, You always answer, though in Your perfect time. Give me wisdom, and control my desires, oh Lord. Guide me to a man who fears You and is filled with Your Spirit, and one who will love me with Your love. Someone with whom I can worship and serve You all the days of our lives together. Yet, I will trust You will all my heart, and lean not on my own understanding. You know already my needs and desires. Thank you, Lord. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Prayer for an Answer
Father, I call unto You and I know that You will answer! It is You who has shown me great and mighty things which I know not. It is You who will reveal the identity of my husband, which I currently know not. I thank You in advance for guiding me to my husband. It is only by Your grace and mercy that I will find him, and when I do, I will be eternally grateful. Amen.

Prayer for Patience with God’s Timing
Faithful God, I lift You up because You do not slack concerning Your promise as some men would. You do not delay, but You are extraordinarily patient towards me. I pray that I too reflect Your nature and become extraordinarily patient while finding my husband. I pray that I do not rush Your timing, for You work things together for my good at the perfect time. Amen.

Prayer for Godly Man
Awesome God, I pray that You give me strength and wisdom in this journey that I have embarked on. Finding a husband in this day and age is not easy, but I pray that I find him according to Your will over my life. I pray that my husband loves You more than any other thing, because it is not a wise thing for me to marry someone who does not love and believe in You. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? Amen.

In God’s Hands Prayer
Father, I place my quest to find my husband in Your hands. I give my future marriage to You because Your word stated that I must ask and it shall be given to me, I must seek, and I will find and when I know it shall be opened to me. Lord, I ask that You guide me to the man You want me to marry. I seek Your guidance for this situation, and I pray that You open the necessary doors for this to happen. Amen.

Prayer for Eternal Union
Eternal Father, I pray for my future marriage and husband. I thank You in advance for helping me find him and I declare Your word over our marriage. I thank You for the moment that we are no longer two but one flesh. I declare that what You have joined together, let man not separate. I proclaim unity not division, and encouragement not destruction. I pray that You keep my husband so that I can meet him. Amen.

Prayer to See His Heart
Precious Lord, I pray that You give me the right mentality to find a husband. I pray that I do not look at his appearance or on the height of his stature, because for those things I could reject him. This is not right. You do not see as man sees. Man looks at the outward appearance, but You look at the heart. I pray that I learn to look at the heart of the man I intend to marry rather than his appearance. Amen.
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By Janesdiary

I am a highly sought-after personal and business branding coach, marriage and Relationship therapist, a blogger and an entrepreneur. I have been blessed with the opportunity to work with some of Africa's most successful entrepreneurs. My success is as a result of my unrelenting passion for excellence in all that I do. My mission is to help people attain their desired goals by teaching them how to be more confident, better communicators and better decision makers. [email protected]

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